There are some things we take for granted in our social interactions with people. We assume that we see the world in much the same way, that we all know certain basic facts, that words mean the same to you as they mean to me. We assume that we have very similar ideas of right and wrong.
But for a small - but not so small - segment of the population, the story is very different. These people lack remorse and empathy and feel emotions only on the surface. In extreme cases, they may not care if you live or die. These people are called psychopaths. Some of them were violent criminals, murderers. But by no means all.
Professor Robert Hale is a criminal psychologist and founder of the PCL-R, a psychological test used to determine whether someone has a mental illness. For decades he studied and worked with the mentally ill in prisons and elsewhere. "It strikes me, as it did when I started 40 years ago, that there are likely to be people who are so emotionally disconnected that they can be manipulated and destroyed with as little fear as anyone else," he said.
Our understanding of the brain is still in its infancy, and mental disorders have only been recognized as character defects for decades. We are slowly learning to see mental illnesses like kidney disease or liver failure and developmental disabilities like autism as diseases in a similar way. Psychopathy challenges this view. "High-scoring psychopaths see the world very differently," Hale said. "It's like a color-blind person trying to understand red, but in this case 'red' is someone else's emotion."
In essence, the Hare test is simple: a list of 20 criteria, each scored as 0 (if it does not apply to the person), 1 (if it partially applies) or 2 (if it applies at all). The full list is: slick and shallow charm, inflated self-esteem, pathological lying, cunning/manipulative, lack of remorse, emotional shallowness, cruelty and lack of empathy, unwillingness to take responsibility for actions, prone to boredom, parasitic lifestyle, lack of realistic long-term goals, impulsivity, irresponsibility, lack of behavioral control, conduct problems in early life, juvenile delinquency, multi-pronged delinquency, history of "parole revocation" (ie parole violation), polygamy, and sex. A pure typical psychopath scores 40 points. A score of 30 or higher qualifies for a psychiatric diagnosis. "A psychiatrist friend once said, 'Bob, when I meet people who score 35 or 36, I know they're really different,'" Hale says.
But is psychosis a disorder - or a different way of being? Anyone reading the above list will find some patterns that will be familiar to people in the know. On average, people without a criminal record scored a 5. "It has dimensions," Hale said. “Some people are at an intermediate level, high enough to warrant a psychiatric evaluation, but not high enough to cause problems. They are usually our friends and fun to hang out with. They can take advantage of us at times, but usually it's subtle and they can talk about it."
We think of psychopaths as murderers, criminals out of society. Like Joanna Dennehy, a 31-year-old British woman who killed three men in 2013 and was diagnosed with a psychotic personality disorder the previous year, or Ted Bundy, an American serial killer believed to have murdered at least 30 people. he says of himself: "I'm the coldest son of a bitch you'll ever meet. I just love killing people." But many psychopathic traits are not necessarily disadvantages—and in some cases, they can be advantages. Hale and his colleague Paul Babiak, in their book Snakes in Suits: When Psychopaths Come to Work, studied 203 businessmen and found that about 4 percent of PCL-R scores were high enough to provide an assessment of psychosis. According to Hale, it's not a true random sample (the claim that "10% of cashiers" are psychopaths is definitely wrong), but it's easy to tell if you want to advance in your career.
American serial killer Ted Bundy is said to have killed at least 30 people
"There are two kinds of empathy," says James Fallon, retneuroscientistAt the University of California he is the author of The Psychopath Within: A Neuroscientist's Personal Journey into the Dark Side of the Brain. "Cognitive empathy is the ability to understand how another person feels, while affective empathy is the ability to let them feel what they feel." People with autism can be highly empathetic - feeling the pain of others - but less able to recognize our tell-tale signs, smiles and frowns that tell us what someone is thinking. Psychopaths are often the exact opposite: they know how you feel, but they don't feel it themselves. "All of this gives some psychopaths a huge advantage because they can tell what you're thinking, they just don't care, so they can use you against them." (Frighteningly, psychopaths are particularly good at spotting vulnerability. A 2008 study asked participants to recall fictional characters and found that those who scored high on psychopathy recognized sad, failed women almost perfectly, but had impaired memory for other characters.)
Fallon himself is a perfect example. In 2005 he looked at brain scans of psychotic killers, and in another study of Alzheimer's he used brain scans of his own family members as a control. He found something odd about the latter. "You can't tell if someone is a psychopath from a brain scan," he said, "but you can get a pretty good guess at what personality traits they're going to have." He described an important loop that starts at the front. of the brain. These include the parahippocampus and amygdala, as well as other areas associated with emotion, impulse control, and empathy. In some cases, they light up dramatically on MRIs of normal people, but dimly on those of psychopaths.
“I saw a very abnormal person, I thought he was a rude person. He looked like the killer I was looking for,” he said. Breaks the anonymous code if it lands on the wrong pile. When he did, he discovered it was his own brain. "I kind of messed it up," he said. "But then some of my psychiatrist friends checked my behavior and said you might be a borderline psychopath."
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Talking to him was a strange experience, he was not breathing for almost an hour and I asked him three questions. He explained how he regularly put his family at risk by exposing his brother to the deadly Marburg virus and taking his son trout fishing in the African countryside, even though he knew there were lions. In his youth, "I showed no emotion, no fear when I faced authority - when I stole a car, made a pipe bomb, set it on fire - when the police caught us." However, he was very successful and determined to win. He told me something that would make most people uncomfortable: his wife said she was married to a "nice, fun, easy-going guy" on the one hand and a "very dark one that she didn't like" on the other. others. He's pleasant and funny, if self-centered, but I can't help but think of Hare's PCL-R patterns: shallow charisma, lack of emotional depth, exaggerated self-esteem. "I look awful now, Tom," she said — she was 66 — "but I grew up beautiful, 6 feet tall, 180 pounds, strong, smart, funny, popular." (Incidentally, Rabbit warns laypeople not to try to use his test to diagnose people.)
"Psychopaths think they're more rational than other people, and that's not a flaw," Hale said. "I met a criminal who was definitely mentally ill and he said, 'My problem, according to the psychiatrists, is that I think more with my head than with my heart. What should I do? Burst into tears,” another asked if he regretted stabbing a robbery victim, he replied: “Be realistic! He's been in the hospital for months and I'm rotting here. If I wanted to kill him, I would cut his throat. That's me, I'll let him rest."
But as Hare points out, it's hard to classify it as a disease when you're talking about people who aren't criminals and could be successful in life. "It's hard for me to dig into high-level political, business or academic backgrounds, pick out the most successful people and say, 'Look, I think you have a brain defect.' One of the prisoners spoke to me of his problem as being a mouse in the world. cats. If you compare the brain wave activity of cats and mice, they are completely different."
It may have been an evolutionarily successful strategy for many of our ancestors, and it may be successful today, Hale said. Psychopaths, good at manipulating people, could walk into a community, "like a church or a cultural organization and say, 'I think you do the same,' but of course what we have is a cat, pretending to be one mouse and all of a sudden all the money is gone.” At this point he thought of the name Bernie Madoff.
Columbine High School killers Dylan Klebold (right) and Eric Harris caught on CCTV the day of the massacre (Reuters/Gary Kaski)
This is a matter of treatment. "Psychopathy is perhaps the most pleasant feeling of all mental disorders," says journalist Jon Ronson, whose book The Psychopath Test examines the concept of psychosis and the mental health industry as a whole. "All the things that keep you good, morally good, are painful things: guilt, sorrow, compassion." Fallon agrees: "Psychopaths work very quickly and have significantly higher IQs than they really are because they don't think about moral questions. Limit."
Therefore, psychopaths often happily accept their condition and their "treatment" becomes complicated. “How many psychopaths would go to a psychiatrist for a mental health problem unless they were in prison? That wasn't going to happen,” Hale said. Of course, people in prison are often told to go to "talk therapy, empathy training, or talk to victims' families" — but because psychopaths don't have empathy, that doesn't work. "What you want to do is say, 'Look, it's in your best interest to change your behavior or you're going to be in jail for a long time.'
Hale's message appears to have been carried over to the UK Ministry of Justice: in its guidelines for dealing with prisoners with personality disorders, it indicates that while 'highly psychopathic patients' may be 'highly resistant to treatment', 'interventions are most likely to be effective for victims' 'self' - what perpetrators want out of life - and work with them to develop the skills to achieve these things in a pro-social rather than anti-social way."
When someone's brain lacks the moral qualities that the rest of us take for granted, it is clearly powerless, just as a colorblind person can begin to see colors. So where is the concept of moral responsibility? “The legal system has traditionally held that all people are equal before a judge. This is obviously wrong,” says the neuroscientistDavid Adlerman, from Incognito: The Secret Life of the Brain. Rather than thinking in terms of liability, he suggested that the law should address the likelihood of someone reoffending and impose penalties accordingly, rehabilitating those who might benefit and long prison terms for those who pose a long-term threat. The PCL-R is already used as part of an algorithm to classify individuals according to their risk of recidivism. "Life insurance companies do just that, and in their actuarial sheets they ask, 'At what age do we think he will die?' No one pretends to know exactly when we will die, which greatly improves the efficiency of the system. "
That doesn't mean a situation like in the sci-fi movie Minority Report, where alleged criminals are jailed for real crimes, he said. "That's why," he said. “That's because there are a lot of people in the population who have high-level mental illness -- about 1 percent. But not all of them go criminal. The will to surpass people and become very successful. They become CEOs, professional athletes, soldiers. These people are honored for their courage, openness and willingness to overcome obstacles in their path. "Just having a mental illness doesn't tell us that someone is going to go off and commit a crime." In the UK and US, the core of the justice system is that you cannot punish someone proactively. That will never change, Eagleman said, not only for moral and philosophical reasons, but also for practical reasons. The Minority Report script is a fantasy because “It's impossible to predict what someone is going to do, even considering their personality type and everything, because life is complicated and crimes have context. Once someone commits a crime, once someone crosses a social threshold, then what they can do in the future has more statistical power. But until then you never know."
When I talked to all of these experts, I noticed that they all referred to psychopaths as "them," almost a different species, even though they made a conscious effort not to. There is something particularly disturbing about people who lack emotion and empathy. it's the story of changelings, Midwich Cuckoos, Hannibal Lecter. "You know kids who burn ants with a magnifying glass and they think that's funny," Hale said. "The extrapolation to an adult psychopath treating a person this way is terrifying." At one point, Ronson suggested I talk to another well-known woman who claimed to be a psychopath, but I couldn't convince myself. I found the thought unsettling, as if he were suggesting that I communicate with the dead.
• This article originally referred to autism as a "personality disorder." It is actually a neurodevelopmental disorder. This has been fixed, sorry for the mistake. someone
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FAQs
What is factor 1 of the psychopathy checklist? ›
Factor 1 (F1) encompasses interpersonal and affective traits (e.g., callousness, shallow affect, grandiosity), whereas Factor 2 (F2) captures impulsive-antisocial behavior (e.g. impulsivity, irresponsibility, early behavior problems).
What is one of the many weaknesses of psychopaths? ›One of the psychopaths' most significant weaknesses is their lack of empathy. This makes it difficult for them to form deep emotional connections with others. They may not fully understand or care about the consequences of their actions on those around them, making them callous and detached.
What are the red flags of a psychopath? ›Key traits
Some of the red flags that someone is a psychopath include a lack of empathy, a charming personality to fool others, disorganisation, a tendency to blame others, a lack of fear, and being cold-hearted. “Making a clinical diagnosis of psychopathy is rather hard, actually,” Erikson said.
Instead, psychopathy is characterised by an extreme lack of empathy. Psychopaths may also be manipulative, charming and exploitative, and behave in an impulsive and risky manner. They may lack conscience or guilt, and refuse to accept responsibility for their actions.
How do psychopaths manipulate? ›First, they assess the value of individuals to their needs, and identify their psychological strengths and weaknesses. Second, they manipulate the individuals (now potential victims) by feeding them carefully crafted messages, while constantly using feedback from them to build and maintain control.
What are the three predictors of psychopathy? ›Main Predictor
The Callous-Unemotional or Affective Dimension (AD) includes three subscales: Callousness, Unemotionality, and Remorselessness. The Impulsive-Irresponsible or Behavioral Dimension (BD) includes three subscales: Impulsiveness, Thrill-Seeking, and Irresponsibility.
Psychopathy: personality traits associated with psychopathy include a lack of empathy or remorse, antisocial behavior, and being manipulative and volatile.
What is the most widely used measure of psychopathy? ›The measurement section will primarily be focused on Hare's Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R), as this is the most frequently used and validated measure of psychopathy.
What words do psychopaths use? ›Psychopaths are more likely to use filler words and sounds, like "uh" and "um." While many people use such sounds to avoid an awkward silence, researchers suspect psychopaths use them in an effort to appear sane.
What are things psychopaths hate? ›Firstly, most psychopaths dislike children and babies – because, as one comment put it, “children just suck ass”. Along with children, the most listed other dislikes included religion, politics, political correctness and social justice.
What are the two dominant traits of a psychopath? ›
Twin analyses revealed significant genetic influence on distinct psychopathic traits (Fearless Dominance and Impulsive Antisociality).
What are the Big 5 personality test psychopath? ›For instance, from the Big Five perspective (Costa & McCrae, 1992), psychopathy might be described as a particular profile of low scores in both agreeableness (i.e., manipulation, egocentricity, antagonism, arrogance, and lack of empathy) and conscientiousness (i.e., recklessness, disorganization, lack of purpose, and ...
What do psychopaths say in a relationship? ›They convey (overtly or covertly) that they think little of their mate (“You're stupid,” “too emotional,” “clingy,” “worthless”, “insecure,” “always holding on to the past,” “paranoid,” “crazy.”) There is a tendency toward many short-term intimate relationships. Individuals with psychopathy are very easily bored.
Do psychopaths know they have a problem? ›Psychopaths are at least periodically aware of the effects of their behavior on others and can be genuinely saddened by their inability to control it. The lives of most psychopaths are devoid of a stable social network or warm, close bonds.
What are common behaviors of psychopaths? ›Psychopaths often engage in criminal, cruel, or socially irresponsible behavior, including lying, stealing, or being violent or abusive toward others. Because psychopaths have no empathy for a person's needs or rights, they also feel no remorse—even when their actions harm others.
What do psychopaths eyes look like? ›The various suggested characteristics of “psychopath eyes” seem to echo the general belief that people with ASPD have no emotions to show. These descriptions include: dead, flat, or reptilian-like eyes. very dark irises, or eyes that appear black.
What do psychopaths like to eat? ›Those who enjoyed bitter foods and drinks showed more negative personality traits like narcissism, sadism. They say you are what you eat, however a study surprisingly found that psychopaths enjoy bitter flavours.
How do psychopaths get angry? ›In reality, other than rage, the psychopath tends to feel few true emotions. This elevated level of anger can manifest in rage-induced aggression and even adult temper tantrums.
Can you hurt a psychopaths feelings? ›Of course, they can also get angry, especially in response to provocation, or get frustrated when their goals are thwarted. So Villanelle is right, to some extent. You can hurt a psychopath's feelings, but probably different feelings and for different reasons.
How do you fight a psychopath and win? ›- Keep Your Emotions in Check. No matter how frustrated or upset you feel, keep your emotions in check. ...
- Don't Show That You're Intimidated. ...
- Don't Buy Into Their Stories. ...
- Turn the Conversation Back on Them. ...
- Opt for Online Communication Whenever You Can.
What are psychopaths more likely to do? ›
Psychopathy is more common than most people realize. People with psychopathic traits show less empathy and remorse than other people. They may lie, cheat, and steal, but they may also be friendly, smart, and basically unremarkable. In other words, impossible to pick out of a crowd.
How psychopaths select their victims? ›Uninhibited by conscience, they initially assess the utility of those around them freely and equally. They then tend to narrow their choices to those they find unusually trusting or vulnerable. Sometimes, simply having normal personality traits qualifies an individual as vulnerable.
Are psychopaths quiet? ›Psychopaths tend to speak slowly and quietly
They also use fewer emotional words, keeping a relatively neutral tone.
Psychopathy is a personality construct characterized by superficial charm, shallow emotions, lack of empathy, lack of guilt or remorse, irresponsibility, impulsivity, deceitfulness, and persistent antisocial behaviors (Hare, 2006).
What is borderline psychopath? ›Impulsive and risky behavior, including gambling, reckless driving, unsafe sex, spending sprees, binge eating, drug abuse or self-destructive behaviors such as quitting a good job or relationship. Suicidal threats or behavior or self-injurious actions in fear of separation or rejection.
Are most psychopaths highly intelligent? ›A review of studies found that the correlation between psychopathy and intelligence is nearly zero, suggesting that most people with psychopathic traits are neither highly intelligent nor particularly dull (O'Boyle, Forsyth, Banks, & Story, 2013).
Can a psychopath be a good person? ›Yes, research shows there are “good” psychopaths. Many people in positively heroic professions have strong psychopathic traits.
What are the 4 types of psychopaths? ›Clinical observations at ASH have suggested 4 possible subtypes of psychopathy: narcissistic, borderline, sadistic, and antisocial.
Does psychopath cry? ›There are some areas where psychopaths may experience normal emotions and grief is one such area. In response to death of a person with whom there is a bond, some psychopaths can experience sadness and this may even bring about feelings of guilt which are otherwise impossible to feel. Crying may be a part of this.
What are psychopaths thinking? ›Psychopaths have an inflated sense of importance. Much like narcissists, they think the usual laws and rules don't apply to them. They also tend to have grandiose ideas about their potential. They believe they deserve to be the CEO or they're convinced they're the best at everything they do.
Are psychopaths talkative? ›
Psychopathy positively correlates with talkativeness and dominance (Manson et al., 2014; Rimé et al., 1978). Psychopaths tend to excessively use jargon and poorly integrated phrases; they also have troubles adhering to one train of thought (Gillstrom & Hare, 1988).
Do psychopaths avoid eye contact? ›Compared to non-psychopaths, studies suggest that psychopaths make significantly less eye contact. This applies to both eye contact frequency and duration. Eye contact avoidance doesn't only occur while listening during in-person interaction.
Do psychopaths have friends? ›Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and professor of psychology, says to take a peek at their relationships. “Psychopaths don't have any really close friends or family members that they have good relationships with,” she says, “but they have lots of acquaintances and 'connections.
Do psychopaths hate love? ›Several studies have indicated that people with psychopathic personalities tend to fear intimacy and struggle to form close emotional bonds with others. In love, this often manifests as a particular type of disjointed connection called avoidant attachment.
Do psychopaths like themselves? ›It's also possible that some psychopaths may only be able to love themselves. They might not have the ability to feel love for anyone else. If you are close to a psychopath, it might be hard to tell what type of love they have because they are very good at manipulating things to their advantage.
Which personality type is likely to be a psychopath? ›It is a subtype of antisocial personality, characterized by persistent, violent offending histories (often with a variety of offence types), lack of emotional warmth or any sense of empathy for others, and deceptive and predatory attitudes to others.
What personality type is most likely to be a psychopath? ›ESTP – Reckless and impulsive with no regard for others, ESTPs are likely candidates to have psychopathic tendencies as well. With Introverted Thinking (Ti) as one of their main functions, they see things through their results over the impact something has on others.
What is OCEAN test? ›The ocean personality test is based on the five-factor model, an empirical concept in psychology that measures five pre-dominant personality traits: openness, conscientiousness, extroversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism, making the acronym OCEAN.
What are the traits of a psychopath WebMD? ›These personality disorders are marked by antisocial and impulsive behavior, disregard for societal standards, and no indications of fear or guilt.
Which personality test is most accurate? ›Any personality test can be fun and intriguing. But from a scientific perspective, tools such as the Big Five Inventory (and others based on the five-factor model) and those used by psychological scientists, such as the MMPI, are likely to provide the most reliable and valid results.
Do psychopaths get jealous? ›
Because jealousy induction involves manipulating and controlling one's partner, which is typical of psychopaths, these individuals might be more likely to induce jealousy for these reasons rather than to strengthen their relationship.
Do psychopaths struggle with relationships? ›Individuals who fit the criteria of psychopathy—whether or not they also engage in criminal behavior—exhibit behaviors associated with an avoidant attachment style, being unable to form close intimate relationships.
Are psychopaths hypersexual? ›Abstract. Psychopathy is a maladaptive personality style that is marked by hypersexual activity that may put the individual or others at risk for unintended consequences such as pregnancy, STDs, pain, and emotional distress.
What struggles do psychopaths have? ›Social isolation, loneliness, and associated emotional pain in psychopaths may precede violent criminal acts. They believe that the whole world is against them and eventually become convinced that they deserve special privileges or rights to satisfy their desires.
Do psychopaths regret their actions? ›They found that psychopathic subjects did experience regret, for instance, when they discovered that they would have made money if they had made a different decision in a gambling scenario. But, they did not use that experience to inform later decisions.
Do psychopaths regret things? ›For decades, researchers studying psychopathy have characterized the disorder as a profound inability to process emotions such as empathy, remorse, or regret.
What are 4 traits of a psychopath? ›While it is true that people with the condition display a range of disconcerting tendencies—including low empathy and remorse, grandiosity, impulsivity, and sometimes aggressive or violent behavior—new findings show not only that people with psychopathy have varying degrees and types of this condition but that the ...
Do psychopaths have different eyes? ›Clinical and academic sources tell us that psychopathic individuals display different eye behaviors than non-psychopathic people. Both pupillary responses and a lack of eye contact are examples of this. Some even venture to say that these features can be predictors or identifiers of psychopaths.
What are the 7 symptoms of a sociopath? ›- Ignoring right and wrong.
- Telling lies to take advantage of others.
- Not being sensitive to or respectful of others.
- Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or pleasure.
- Having a sense of superiority and being extremely opinionated.
- Having problems with the law, including criminal behavior.
One analysis by researchers in 2005 also contrasted core characteristics of women and men with psychopathy. They suggested that women often exhibited traits like debilitating impulsiveness (such as a lack of planning), thrill-seeking in interpersonal relationships, and verbal aggression.
What phrases do psychopaths use? ›
- You're crazy/you have mental health issues/you need help. ...
- You're just insecure and jealous. ...
- You're too sensitive/you're overreacting. ...
- It was just a joke. ...
- You need to let it go. ...
- You're the problem here, not me.
Psychopaths are more likely to use filler words and sounds, like "uh" and "um." While many people use such sounds to avoid an awkward silence, researchers suspect psychopaths use them in an effort to appear sane.
What is the most common eye color for psychopaths? ›The various suggested characteristics of “psychopath eyes” seem to echo the general belief that people with ASPD have no emotions to show. These descriptions include: dead, flat, or reptilian-like eyes. very dark irises, or eyes that appear black.
Do psychopaths have social anxiety? ›Specifically, the defining features of social anxiety and psychopathy tend to oppose one another: Whereas individuals with social anxiety are overly concerned about violating social norms and being negatively evaluated by others, people with psychopathic attributes typically do not fear violating social norms and show ...